Do you think she was really pregnant?I'M SORRY IT'S SO LONG! :D
My best friend is only 14 and has had sexual intercourse many times, well she had sex with her boyfriend without protection around the time her period should have came, now keep in mind there is such a thing as when you think you're preggers your body will convince it's self it is and act pregnant. Anyway, her period never came so she started flipping saying she was pregnant, crying and this and that. I didn't really think she was, just because my gut told me she wasn't. But then she called around 6:OO and said "The Clinic called me back and I'm pregnant." Her voice was odd and neutral which (I don't care how long ago the call was, when you tell your best friend things the emotion comes back like it had just happen) seemed off.
so I said "Clinic?"
"Yeah, I went there before school and took a test but had to leave before the results since first period was starting, they just now called me like an hour ago."
Well what I was thinking was 'Wouldn't your mom find out? Wouldn't they call her? Maybe not.' So I let that one slide and just believed her since she has never given me a reason to doubt her. Now about a month later she keeps slipping up and smoking and drinking, and she's the responsible type. Sure she does smoke and drink sometimes but if she won't do it in front of me because I USED to have asthma, I highly doubt she'd do it KNOWING she's pregnant. She kept telling me stories like "Oh, me and (Fake name) Ronald were out and I kept throwing up so he called the ambulance, it was so embarrassing!" but all I could think is, Don't they HAVE to call your mom if you were in an ambulance? But she insisted it's not true.
Last night I kept saying things like "You're so brave, I'm glad you're keeping the baby. I Admire your strength!" Trying to weed her out with guilt. Now I threatened to call her mom and tell her myself that she was pregnant so she could get the care she needs for the baby. She got mad and said "Do NOT do that!" made an excuse and hung up. Five minutes later she texts me saying "Oh my god, I'm cramping and bleeding everywhere! I think I just had a miscarriage!" Then later texts me details that she called an ambulance again, and they simply told her she had a miscarriage and she went home.
They would HAVE to call her mom right?!
So this is the possabilities:
1.) She's telling the truth.
2.) It was ALLLL lies
3.) She scared herself into thinking she was pregnant, told everyone she was because she believed it then found out she wasn't and needed a way out from all the fibs.
What do you think?
I've tried everything to change her, talked with her, cried with her, yelled at her.
I told her that everytime she cuts herself or takes a puff I'll do the same and she yells at me, telling me not to be stupid and throw my life away, but what is she doing? I'm at a dead end, i have nothing left to do. I obviously can't get through to her and I moved about an hour away so I can't get her help. When I said she's responsible I meant more like she's there for everyone BUT herself, she takes responsibility and helps people through things but she can't take her own advice and do the same, that's why I don't believe she's be dumb enough to smoke while pregnant.
-Emily E
If she took an ambulance ride her parents would have to know! First her insurance would be billed, and second the hospital would not release a 14 year old with out an adult to take them home. She may be looking for attention, find out why! And drinking and smoking at 14 is not responsible. If she had had a miscarriage, they would not of just sent her home. There is follow up care that needs to be done in most cases!!
-Brittney
Lol...your friend is a faker. Shes just crying out for attention. She wouldnt just randomly have a miscarriage right after you said you were gonna tell her mom. And no most clinics dont call parents. The ambulance i dont think either, they are to busy. Shes pathetic. She just wanted to look cool and really shes lame. The clinic results would have taken no less then 3 minutes so i know shes lieing and no clinic is open that early. Im sorry but you need to confront her and tell her you know shes just a big attention wh*re!!
-Gemma Walsh
number 1 ATTENTION SEEKER is what that seems like.. i had a mate like that and she said she was pregnant evrey month and had miscarrages evrey month to. if she thought she was pregnant she would have told her mom especially if the test came back positive and the doctors would have rang her mum because of her age. Lies is what it seems like to me.
-Steph
Whether she was lying or not isn't really what's important here because either way she clearly needs your support and love. This isn't a normal thing for someone to lie about and if she was then there is clearly a reason whether it was for attention or whatever reason she clearly needs help. Clearly if it was true it would be very traumatic. Either way she is your friend instead of trying to guilt her into admitting something and accusing her of things you should really talk to her and show her you are there for her no matter what to support her and help her with whatever she needs. If she continues to lie then at least you know you've been a good friend and done everything you can and hopefully in the future she will realise this and see she can turn to you and talk to you.
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