ok i need some well needed advice fast?ok so im a freshman and i was failing 4 classes(german,science,english,geography) now i have only 2 but i only have about 20 something school days left. i already failed last semester english 9. but school has always seemed harder for me. all the way thru grade school it was hard. i wouldnt do so great my parents would get mad at me yell then be done for the whole year. which was fine but as soon as i went to 7th grade things came to me as more IMPORTANT. 7th grade didnt do so well i know i failed reading writing and something else like science or math. 8th grade was alot more easier passed all classes i was in a "lower" english class but still got like a B or a C because my teacher was really nice. now this year i went to high school were things are for real. i went thru the whole summer thinkin i was gonna knock this whole freshman year easily..prevous years i just thought i never put in effort because it never really counted. this year i have tried the most to just pass. first semester i went thu and got 4 D's and 1 F wit one C in math. math is really the only thing thats really easily for me. it seems english is just to boring.i pay attention as much as i can and i listen i know what to do for the most part but when i try to get INTO the work and knock it out it seems i do one problem or paragaph then suddenly zone out staring at random shit. i think i have adhd or add. i have looked into it but yet i still think some of the symptoms are not like me. im shy not outgoing im the quite kid in the classroom. im not a fat ass i play video games competivly and enjoy it alot. i also love sports i went out for the baseball team and made it..yet i never played a game due to my grades. thus making me get teased and nagged by players coaches and my parents....i feel depressed due to the grades in school. and now that not just my friends know my problem with grades. i have literally have had thoughts about my career what would i do after i move out for a job...sadly enough i actually have thought i would just kill myself after i get kicked out...its not funny but serous. all my team mates ae back stabbers from when i was little i knew them since i was 5 and 6...now that i have cracked a vertabra in my back gained a few pounds over the summer and is now noticably alot slower with asthma i get teased constantly about my weight, grades and looks. i have a nickname on the team....everyone does ....but my nickname is the only one people actually call me by....my nickname is tumbles......because when i go after the ball i usaually ...well....tumble...it pisses me off. one day in practice the star of the team. ( a person i have known but disliked and never really done anything about) said " dude you dumb how hard is it just to get d's really? cmon dude!"......he always after every game is like "great game dude you did great at the plate today*laughs*chuckles*"even though i was sitting on the bench the whole time. i have been getting so pissed i have actually got in this dude face and cussed him out. today the last game of the season after i was talking to (wat seems to be my only friend) were just screwing around with then i herd colton(douche bag of the team) said in the background hey i have a new name for me then whispers to his friend while they laugh....i pretend like i didnt hear...so basiclly im really depressed.......my grades are bad i really believe its a learing disablity but my parents think its the video games......i get teased for my grades thinking im dumb..which i actually think im alot more intellagent then them...they just copy off people....and now they just made me so depressed that im thinkin about quiting baseball and just sitting and my room to rot.....i already didnt sign up for legion because they were on....i just need someone to talk me thru this stupid shit....im fed up with it and im having crazy ass dreams.....
-★ ƒrαncεs ★
Firstly, I think you need to talk to your school counselor. Secondly, you should tell your parents that you need to go to the doctor. If you have to, tell them it's for a physical or lie and say you're not feeling well. Once you're there, talk to your doctor about your concerns, tell them you feel as though you have a learning disability and that you think you may have adhd/add and that no one is taking you serious but it's truly impacting your grades majorly. As for "friends", you will probably never see 90% of those people you go to high school with again once you graduate. Those people who crack jokes at your expense are just trying to build their self up, you don't need to take it so seriously. Years from now they'll be fat, divorced and stocked up on viagra. They'll be nobodies BUT if you let them bring you down and you keep going the way you're going, you'll be just like them :(
Worry about yourself, don't focus on the sports, or looking good in other people's eyes. Study harder, get a teacher to help you or look into getting a smart kid to tooter you and help you understand the lessons if you have to, talk to a counselor at school and see your doctor. Sit your parents down and tell them what's happening and how you're feeling. It will be okay.
Good luck :)
-AtheistMonk
Honestly... It is the video games. I could almost guaranty you play video games a lot more than you say. I had this same problem in High school. My freshman year I was on the football, and wrestling team. I started playing video games online and I ended up quitting both teams. My grades started droping and all I could focus on was the video games. I started using them to escape from all the problems they were causing in life. Things will just get worse. As much as it sucks, Im sure you have friends online too. You need to just turn off your systems, weather it be console or computer (computer being 10x more addictive). Use the hours you spend playing games to better yourself. You definately wont be losing anything in life by not playing video games. You will lose a lot in life by wasting hours infront of the tv/computer screen. Im 23 now, do you think anything in my life is better now because I was ranked #1 on Tribes 2 in 4 different tournaments my freshman year of highschool?
Just sit down and think of how many hours you spend playing games. Then think if that time would better benefit you if you used them to study to improve your grades in school.
Learn from my mistakes, games ruin lives.
-linuxsuze
Your story sounds a lot like my life at your age. People don't always learn the same. I learn by seeing things done but if I read it, it doesn't come nearly as easy. In college the second time around I got my act together and got A's and B's
Your old enough to apply better discipline to yourself.
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