My Girlfriend Just Told Me Her Biggest Secret, Now I Feel Kind Of Weird..?By the way, I'm using her old account. Anyway, yesterday morning she kept asking me all these questions like "If I broke up with you for a stupid reason would you be angry?" and I answered truthfully "Yes, I would.." And then she said "I take that back, I know you'd be angry, but would you start talking about me behind my back weeks later?" and I was hesitant, but I answered, "Probably.. But I wouldn't talk about you, I'd just call you names. Please don't be mad, I don't exactly know where this is going, so I'm trying to be truthful.." And then she said "Nevermind." And I got that feeling like I said something wrong, so I went on talking about trust in relationships, and that she doesn't have to tell me, but that I would always be there for her.. And she said "But I want to tell you." So I asked her what was wrong and she said "Here's something you don't know about me.." She told me in the shortest way possible (which really wasn't that short) that her parents got divorced when she was 3 and she now lives with her mom (which she says is a good thing), but every year her dad goes to court and tries to take custody, but has failed since she was 4. (In court she is asked multiple questions and once in the beginning she ran out crying) And that her dad says if he ever did get her, he planned to move to Washington D.C. (we live on the other side of the country). Oh, and that her dad has almost been put in jail a few times due to not paying child support, and the only reason he hasn't is because her mom doesn't really need it (I've met her mom, she works in insurance).
She told me that if I didn't want to be bothered with this she wouldn't be mad if I broke it off. But that was the last thing on my mind. I actually think that I have stronger feelings for her now that I know this, but I do feel kind of weird.. I mean you would have NEVER guessed! She just doesn't give off that vibe! She's the most popular girl in our school and she's really hot!
She had told me that I had the perfect family (which was kind of true, we are really close) But I felt really bad, so I told her my biggest secret.. I have Sickle Cell Disease. You can't tell, but I have the symptoms. I can't play sports, I have asthma (I used this when she asked why I couldn't do sports), I get pains a lot (that can last for days), I get sick a lot, I have to drink a lot which makes me have to go to the bathroom more then everybody else, etc.
But the thing is she's REALLY moody, but I never knew why. She says it's because when she's not around that type of stuff she's pretty happy. She says there is only three things that can take her mind off of it.. Me, her friends, and dancing. My dad is a cop, so I hear a lot about this stuff from him, but I wouldn't think from her.. She says that her dad used to come up to school and try to get her out, but wasn't able to (he's on this list, so he can't check her out) and that he comes to her mom's house a lot, which has ended a few times with a bunch of police cars surrounding the house. It kind of scares me to think about what she's going through, but I love her so much.
We've been going out for about 4 months and we're both 14. What do you think of this?
-chivas4life
wow..to much drama for fourteen year olds
-KeepSmiling
I think it's great u r opening up to each other and becoming great friends. Even if the relationship thing doesn't work out, you'll both probably have made a good friend in each other. Good luck!
-katie
well if you really love her you will be there for her.... im 14 too and my life is similar to hers my dad left when i was 2 i dont remember much about him but he always comes to my school to get me i keep having to tell the people in the front office that im not allowed to leave with him... believe me shes going through alot she needs you. sometimes it is the ones you wouldnt exspect it to happen to. just tell her you love her and be there for her be her crying rock. Good luck
-I ♥ Michael Jackson (Official)
You must be a really good friend, for her to be able to tell you all this, and you seem to trust her too, because you can tell her stuff too.
You should just be there for her, she seems like a nice girl, and to always be there for her, means everything to a girl. I think your doing the right thing.
Your really lucky to be able to care and have a girl like her. Just always talk to her when she wants to talk and be there for her, she really needs a friend
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