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step-sister problems? Help me?okay, so me step sister moved out 2 years ago to live with her mom, she's 14 now btw, and my stepdad still has to see her, every 2 weeks, and I absolutelty hate going and most of the time I don't go. She used to be so nice, and stuff, but then when we where in the 7th grade, she called me in the counselers office, and was like I can't live with u and mom, and dad, anymore, because I feel suffocated living there, and the thing is that she is the one that help set up my mom, and her dad, and then she was like bye I'm leaving. so anyways, 2 years ago we used to live in an apartment. BUt now we have bought a house, and been a year since me, my mom, and dad live here. SO like my dad said that she has to atleast come to the house a couple of times a year, because he has a court order to follow. and like b4 he used to take her out and stuff. so she's going to be coming here in like a few days, and I'm don't want her to come because she has become such a *****, and 2 faced person, although these days she is becoming super sweet to my mom, and stepdad, ( i don't see her that much), and it's like everytime my mom comes from seeing here she's always like "she is so smart, she has all A's," or like " she lost so mcuh weight, she's so skinny now (she used to be chubby)", and I feel Jealous that she doesn't even live here and she still has like complete control over my parents, because she becomes sooo nice and sweet to them, like I know it's so fake, and the thought that she is actually coming to the house for the first time, is freaking me out, even though my mom is like "she's the guest not you", But I don;t know How not to get Jealous, and it's not like I can avoid her now, I mean she's going to staying in the room next to me, we have to share a bathroom, and all that. ANd me and her don't get along at all, I mean we're like FIRE and Water. I don't know waht to do, like I don't want to be to insecure?? like this my house, and she's only comign here for a couple of days, and I'm scared she's going to start doing her drama, like having fake asthma attacks, and all that stuff. PLease help I need advice on how to control my self, and be nice to her, I really need some advice on what to do!!!!!!!!!
also she like hates my mom, and me, becuase she thinks we're like stealing her dad away from her, so she is always trying her best to find someway for my step dad to sympathize her, It's really annoying and I don't know what to do. MY step dad loves me, but I feel like whenever we are all together, I tell how much he still loves her, even after all the crap she did to him, making him go to court, and making him spend thousands of bucks, so she could go live with her, mom, because she has more freedom there, and My mom is a tad on the strict side.
like when she first moved there she came into my parents room, and started going like how she used to dress my step dad, and how they did all this cool stuff together, and all cool things they did, that he would probably never do with me and stuff, like saying all of this stuff, and trying to make me feel bad.
-kiwi
Give the poor girl a break.. Try to put behind you all the bad things that she may have done to you in the past. Don't be telling her father how bad of a daughter she is. That is mean and selfish. It wasn't her fault that he had to go to court and pay lots of money for her. it was between her father and her mother. That's it.. It isnt her fault that she may act out in a way that you dont like. matybe she feels the same as you do about her father. That "YOU" are trying to steal him away from her. I mean you get to spend 365 days a year with him. IM sure she has some jealopusy for you as well. The reason why she acts like a brat when she stays withyou is because she is scared that her father doesnt love her as much as you. There are two sides to the story always. She feels just as you. She is most likely dreading coming to see you too. She knows the stress it puts on you and she knows that you dont like her . She can sence it just as you can..
My advice is to try and talk hwith her. Open up to her and tell her how you are feeling. You will be a bigger and better person if you are able to get the strength to do this. it will show you that you are brave, and show here that you are not intimatated by her. And the way thaty she acts. For the next coule of days let her have her way with her dad. It's her dad! You praents dont love you less. They are trying to treat you both equal.. that is what you 2 are "Equal". noone is better then the other. You both need to grow up. When your parents pass on. It will be just the 2 of you. And I know that you dont think of stuff like, that but be happy that you have a half sibling. Someone that you should be able to confide in. someone that will always be there when the world isnt. I would sit down with her and tell her that you want to make a mends with her and that you want to start from scratch. Tell her that you dont want to take her "BOND" away from her and her dad.
YOU need to focus on you. Don't be jealous. That will get you no where.
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