Agruments with friend, might give them the boot.?My friend is a male, who wants to be female. He constantly says that he gets "period-symptoms" around the full moon cause that's when 28 days is, and he gets really cranky and bitchy (like having PMS) but after 2 days (normally the day after the full moon) he's perfectly fine and apologizing.
He says he can understand fully about my own period problems to which I agrued that he can't fully understand or KNOW what it feels like to have the kinds of pains I or any woman has. He might have sympathy pains, but he's also been known to use certain things such as his asthma and panic attacks to gain attention. I think this is another one of them. He called me arrogant for not understand and I said "I can understand maybe having sympathy pains, but you can't know the full extent of a period, and its just like I wont know the full extent of getting kicked in the testicles. I can think "OH GOD, that must hurt" but I'll never know what it feels like"
What should I do? I don't want to back down
He's not taking any hormone replacements. All he does is wear a bra from time to time. He also doesn't think anyone understands him and I've accepted he feels like he should be a girl, but I have no sympathy for someone who uses "having pains" when they don't know what the feel like for temper/rudeness and what not.
I told him "You can call me arrogant if you wish, but that's my opinion" and he did call me/think I was arrogant, so maybe I just put myself up for the name? He also has told my husband that no he's the only "level-headed" person he can talk to after we had gotten into another agrument about him wanting to not be in the group of friends we were in and I told him to "Leave if he wanted, but don't play me around and pretend to be my friend" because he was acting so nice then was just "Yeah..whatever" Which currently makes me want to give him the boot now. and plays around with peoples feelings. Doesn't think we keep him in the loop (we try to, a lot).
-cutie
OK well if you think he deserves the boot then give it to him, but I've heard the same thing from my ex who had an old friend from High School who became gay after awhile would say he had period symptoms which i thought was ludicrous. You can never go though what i go though as a woman so i can understand the frustration. but transsexuals to my experience want to believe that they're woman so much i think some of them make themselves believe half of that stuff.
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