Why does my mom hate me?I know that she gives me food shelter clothes I know she does that. But no matter what I do she's never satisfied. I clean the house take care of her and my dad but I never get a good job or thank you. I always get negative comments like "your too fat, too ugly, lazy, stupid" even in public when I'm with friend of family. I also get threats like "if you don't do this then I'll kick you a**." She even told me if i wasnt born that life for her would be easier and that she could go on vacation in thailand. My mom doesn't talk either she yells all the time too. I used to get beaten when I was younger if I forgot to do something and she would use sticks hangers. She doesn't do it as often but now I feel it's verbal abuse. It's gotten so bad that at times I feel that if I died I wouldn't have to deal with it anymore.I don't know if it's stress from working or If this is just how she is since she fights with her mom a lot. I'm afraid to confront her too because when I was ten I told her that because I get beaten by her my grade were low then she hit me like there was no tommorrow. One time I had an asthma attack at volleyball practice right when my mom and dad were coming to pick me up but when I came to the car with tears my dad was worried but my mom was like "you too fat that's why your not strong enough you just embarrassed yourself" she didnt even care and she said in fromt of my frien that we were driving home. I need advice so please help.
I also asked if she loved me and her exact words were "I let you stay here and I feed you right."
-Mahr Mahr
Hey...! do not you worry try your level best and satisfied her when she give you different comets then keep quite and say her next time i'll try my level best and never hurt you but one thing more you must should show her your beautiful smile okey
-Car Noob
Ignore what she says, If you can't ignore the things she says, use those things as strength. Using that negativity can turn out to be positive. Don't let it get to you, if you really want her to stop, then tell her how she's making you feel. Do what she does to you, make her feel bad for what she's doing and let her know that it's not right. My father is like that, and I tell him all the time that he needs to stop, that's why my sisters are always fighting with him. Just try and ignore the things she says, and do the best you can at life! Good luck :)
Oh and if you really want to p**s her off, when she says her negative comments just thank her and smile. Trust me it will p**s her off! Plus it'll make you feel better :)
I would ask her again if she loves you. If she replies the same thing, then say that's not love that's obligation, love is what you had when you made me xD
-Olivia Sipple
Ok...you need to move in with a friend or something!! Your mother shouldn't treat you like that!
-VANESSA
Wow, what a sad story you tell, I know you are American by your spelling of Mom.
Being afraid of your someone you care for is now way to live.
Sounds like you may need to tell her how you feel, or tell someone else who can maybe help.
Your Mum could also be very insecure.
Good luck, and I hope this helps.
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