everyone please help me ?I'm a 38 year old female been married for 16 years, have 2 kids my 20 year old move out, and a 12 year old who ignores me "typical" I guess,
my so called husband doesn't even have health insurance for me , I have asthma , "go figure".. I have been working for 22 cause I have to not cause I want to , I'm always angry when I see him I hate going home after work , he doesn't sleep with me any more , I'm getting use to that' I'm always alone I really feel like I failed somewhere or on a mission from God , everything gets divided in half rent, food , bills, etc,
I don't really know if a marriage is to be like that , today is 4th of July and where is my husband? he made plans with the neighbors to go to Huntington Beach oh he did invite me but I really don't care for the neighbors "gang bangers", I want to pack my stuff and run away, Is that normal ?? also to I'm more Rockabilly style and he's Hip Hop ,
I've become Rockabilly over the years , I love it though,, Need your help through this ,,,,,
I've mentioned counceling , but he agrees just to shut me up, he's too cool for counceling he say's (lol)
-iloveyuhmore
id say no its not normal u guys need therapy n obviously sumtin went wrong but he is repsonsible too....n id say though if he invites you sumwhere you should go even if u dont like it because it shows u care for what he enjoys...anyways talk to him before some 1 cheats!
-Kelee
You ave been married to that man 4 16yrs, u should ave known how to handle a situation like this. You need to get ur priorities straight and talk to ur husband, figure-out what the problem is between u 2. What's up with u guys not sleeping 2gether. It seems to me that one of u or both ave lost interest in each other. U should ave went with him to see what it is like to be involved in something that he likes. In a marriage, u need to know that u guys r different and learn to understand that difference and accept it. It's not a one person thing, it's 2 of u, COMPROMISE !!
-Reality
Communication is the key to solving many problems. You should speak to your husband and kids, tell them how you feel. I am sure that you will feel better after that. Maybe your husband will try to straighten things out for you. If that doesn't help being away from your family for some time may help. You just need to tell them that you need some time for yourself. Being a way from them will make them realize how important you are to them. and you will also have the time to calm your mind. If all these things don't work out, then divorce is a good choice. Because the most important thing in life is happiness.
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