GF says our relationship is feeling wierd?..well me an my GF of 6months who i am completely inlove with.. just went thru alot of b.s. that i and my "paranoia" made happen.. she wasn't talking to me for a while because i tripped out on her and she was really upset with me.. her chest has been hurting her because of her asthma so she hasn't been talking to me as much.. texting or phone kalls only when she's "feeling ok" but when were on the phone now it feels weird.. i try my best to have normal conversation but i can tell it feels weird to her because she acts as if she's not interested in anything i'm talking about or anything i ask.. (hence i could be wrong because she still replies) ..she tells me no matter what i will always be her own but were continuing to work things out.. i just want to know what to say that would make it feel less weird???.. i mean i've tried the approach of "..hey baby how you doing.. what you do today.. how your day go".. an i still feel as if its odd.. and then if i approach her asking her questions and telling her different stuff about the situation we went through she act's as if she doesnt want to talk about any of it and it makes her mad. .. so i mean what can i possibly do?? i've eased up on texting her and calling her so much because i dont want to smother her because for a little while i think i was because i was so worried and stressed out over it all and she wasnt trying to talk to me on my time only hers.. but as i said were back talking on the phone when she calls me.. but its as if she doesnt have nothing to ask me? she tells me stuff here and there and then acts like she isnt interested in what i think about it.. i mean i dont think i'm acting abnormal?? but i can sense that she thinks its weird.. what can we possibly do or talk about to where it can make everything get back right and stop feeling so weird?
..by the way me acting paranoid thinking that she was talking to other guys b'cuz i was scared to lose her is what got us here in the first place.. so i really kant just b like "baby.. i got a question.. does it feel weird because your talking to somebody else" lmao then it will make me look like nothings changed???
-jimrich
You just have to LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE BETTER!
-bryan r
there are 3 billion girls in the world. it doesn't seem that this one is interested. move on and find a girl that likes you for you!
-MaydayParade:)
you just gotta be honest withher and make sure she's being honest with you too. that's the key to any relationship. truthfully theres no way that any relationship, even just a friendship, can last if people aren't honest with eachother. :) hope everything works out in your favor.
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-alison b
i don't think its related to her seeing someone else honestly.
she is probably still hurting about the confrontation you had.
adding that onto the stress she is going through because of the asthma complications.
try having a seroius conversation about what she thinks the problem is.
make sure you stress that your sorry for blowing up on her and make sure she knows how you feel.
if its over, then it really is over. but there is still a chance you can make it work you just have to try your hardest and if you really are meant to be it will happen!
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