What is wrong with my friend?VERY LONG. *PLEASE* READ
It was her birthday yesterday. I was supposed to be sleeping over her house with one of her old friends, Amy, and one of our current good friends, Sam. We went to the ice skating rink. I mostly stayed with Sam because Sara is fast & Sam and I are slow. They play music there so Sara and I would sometimes sing together. I'd stop with her when she wanted to talk to her mom on the side.
Later on, she asked me if I *still* wanted to sleepover. I said yes, of course. We left the rink and went to Burger King. There were 6 people total. Sara and Amy sat down at the 4 table. Sam and I sat down at a two table by the window because we wanted a window seat and only 4 could sit at the other table anyways. After that, Sara went around making a video of everyone and seemed happy and whatnot.
We left and went back to the car. When certain songs came on I'd be like "Oh remember when we did *blank*" and then smile. She seemed not there and said "Yeah..." while fake smiling.
Then we went to her house. I tried being nice but she continued to really act bitchy towards. She'd fake smile and all that. I felt bad cause she was acting like such a b*tch. I kind of just sat there like not smiling or anything cause I gave up on her. No one was talking, Sam brought it up, and Sara said "Yeah I wonder why".
Then Amy's mom came by to drop off her clothes and Sara and Amy left us alone in the bedroom for 40 minutes. I found that ridiculous. While she was gone, her phone alarm went off. I turned it off and checked her messages. Why? Because before she wanted to see my messages, took my phone, yet wouldn't let me see hers. Of course one message in her inbox was from Amy.
"She is acting snotty. You didn't have to invite her".
So I told Sam I kind of wanted to leave. She asked why? I said Sara is mad at me and showed her the message. We were trying to figure out what I did.
They came back after 40 minutes, and we said nothing. After 5 minutes Amy and her went on the computer laughing and playing games, while Sam and I faced the wall for more than an hour texting each other. For that hour they were still playing music and talking and laughing and shut us out. Out of nowhere Sara texted me asking "Wtf is your problem?" I responded with "I'm wondering the same thing". She started fighting with me while I just kept calm defending myself.
Apparently I was gave her a big f*cking attitude at the skating rink (when I didn't whatsoever), didn't say thanks to her mom (which I usually do when her mom drops me off the next day. Plus she should know I'm very shy), and because I automatically sat with Sam at Burger King and talked to her the whole time (because someone would have had to sat there anyways AND Sara was pissed off at me).
She also said that we weren't talking at all, and that was because I was pissed. I told her it was awkward around Amy, and she was like why the f*ck would it be awkward? If she wasn't here you'd be acting crazy. I said because her friend Amy, who doesn't even know me, hates me.
I kept on saying "sorry for whatever you thought I did, but I didn't mean to do anything". Eventually she calmed down & wanted to talk it out in words. I told her no because I don't want to do this in front of Amy, but she had Amy leave for a bit. We didn't know where to start. Then my dad because he was supposed to pick Sam and I up (Sara already knew I was being picked up).
Then she said "Wow are you really serious?" I said "What?" She said "You're going to make my mom look like an idiot", then went away and talked to her mom. We both HONESTLY felt sick. I have asthma and a sore throat and I didn't feel good, while Sam felt nauseous. Even a few hours back I said that I started feeling sick, but stayed.
She had Amy be a messenger and Amy told me Sara was upset. WHY? She didn't seem like she wanted to be friends with me at all. Plus she wasn't talking to me. Apparently Sara wanted to leave it there, but I insisted we talk it out possibly tomorrow when we're rested and calm. I told her to tell her mom sorry for leaving, but thanks for everything. I don't understand this whatsoever. She could have just told me what was wrong before, instead of making a big pointless mess.
What should I even do? I don't know!
-Be Your Own Star
She sounds like she is jealous of the time that you spent with Sam and it wasn't with her. Just let her cool off, then text her saying thanks for a great party, and I'm sorry I had to leave. Just play it cool :)
-GeetarYo
omfg that was too much to read.
You need a set of new friends cause they aint workin out for ya
-runwithme.
Sara probably just was assuming too quickly,
and made a big deal out of nothing.
I'm not sure what you could do, just be friendly to her and say something along the lines of, "Sorry I was acting in a misunderstanding way, but it wasn't my intention to act bad towards you and your mom. I skated with Sam because she was skating at my pace, and I honestly just forgot to say thank you to your mom. I also sat with Sam at burger King because you were sitting at a four seat table, so it wasn't like I could join with you even if I wanted to. I wish you would have told me earlier what you were feeling instead of keeping it to yourself, then we could have avoided all this."
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